Communism was not experienced and perceived in the same way by everyone. It was different for security guards and victims, for intellectuals and workers, for party members and non-members, for adults and children, for women and men. There are certainly experiences that were accessible only to women. The cold woman, the woman dedicated to the party, the woman who doesn't say "I love you". The work companion, the life companion. Equal to men from a legal point of view, women could and even had to manifest themselves in public life. In private life, that is, within a family, the wife remained to fulfill her traditional function.